She always looks at you, laughs at your jokes and seems excited when she is with you, but you do not know for either she's just flirting, she treats you like a friend, or it is her usual behavior. So many men make mistakes confusing girl’s politeness with the flirting. Legit.ng experts are going to tell you how to know if a girl likes you. So if you are interested, go on reading.
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Signs a girl likes you
Girls adore cues. So they usually leave many signs for men. The problem is that men not always understand the prompts. We will tell you how to know a girl likes you just to make your life simpler.
1. Be attentive to her compliments to you
Usually, a woman waits for compliments from a man, but she may say some pleasant things to you to draw your attention. Everything is very logical: you would also never compliment a person if you did not like him/her. Do you agree?
2. Mind the reaction of her friends
If you see that many of her friends often look at you and smile or giggle, she must have told them about you, and now they are aware of her feelings. Besides, there can be situations when she talks to her friends, and you accidentally pass by or approach them, they immediately stop talking. In this case, it is most likely, that the conversation has been about you or they are waiting for her reaction to you.
3. Pay attention to her appearance
If a girl likes you, she will try to impress you with her clothes, make-up or haircut. She may start wearing tight-fitting, bright clothes and using makeup to demonstrate you how beautiful she is. However, every girl has her own style, so not all girls will dress the way it is described above to impress someone. But anyway, if you notice that the girl you like began to wear more beautiful clothes than usual, she may want to impress you.
4. Mind her jokingly teasing
If a girl loves you, she can jokingly tease you about something that you do or say.
5. Notice if she is looking for a reason to talk to you
Maybe she became your friend on Facebook, she always likes your photos on Instagram or sends you videos or pictures. All signals that a girl is interested in you and wants to know you better. Social networks may say a lot today, so be attentive!
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6. Pay attention to her attempts to learn about your relationship or private life
If a girl likes you, she will definitely ask you if you have a girlfriend. She may ask it directly, or she can use a more subtle approach. She can jokingly tease you (as it is mentioned in item # 4), for example, she can say: “I bet you watched this movie with your girlfriend!” If you like her too, use this opportunity and flirt back! For example, you can say: “I don’t have a girlfriend, but I really want to watch this movie ... Do you want to go to the cinema with me on Friday night?”
7. Pay attention to how often she shows her vulnerability to you
For example, outside, she claims that she is cold. It is a subtle hint for you to give her your sweater. It is a lovely and caring gesture, especially if you want to show the girl that you also like her. She may also ask you to follow her home in the evening, to help her with the packages, or to explain something to her.
8. Notice how much attention and her time she gives to you
One more way how to tell if a woman is attracted to you is to pay attention is she asks how you are doing. Any woman wants to care about someone, particularly about her beloved ones. She may share food with you and even cook for you, and she may ask about your feelings and call you or visit you when you are ill. This care is quite natural and good sign that you can be more than friends.
9. Pay attention to how she behaves in the presence of others
If a girl flirts with you, it does not necessarily mean that she likes you. Maybe she just loves to flirt with the guys, or she doesn't even notice that she is flirting. The best way to understand that she really flirts with you is to watch how she behaves in the company of other guys. If she behaves differently with you, for example, she maintains the eye contact with you longer than with others
To find out if a woman likes you is more accessible than to see her interest. Sometimes she may just notice you among others but not be sure about her feelings. Anyway, her behavior changes, and we are going to give you some points for you to know if you can start to act and fight for her affection.
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How to know a girl is interested in you
There is a difference between the state when a woman is just interested in you and signs she secretly likes you. When she is interested in you, she does not like you yet, but something in you attracts her. She may express it subconsciously, through her behavior and even facial expressions.
Take a closer look at her body language
Take a look at her position. If a girl likes you, she will always try to face you. If a girl turns to you openly, then she is ready to communicate with you. If a girl has a “closed position,” of the body, for example, her arms or legs are crossed, she is likely to be shy or worried while communicating with you, maybe she merely gives you a sign that she is not interested in further communication. If a girl is sitting with her legs crossed, pay attention to her feet. If the toes of her shoes are directed to you, she likes you or at least is interested in the communication. This rule works even in a big company. A person always arranges his or her toes or knee cups towards the other, the most exciting personality on his or her opinion.
Pay attention to your eye contact
If a girl likes you, she will look straight into your eyes only for a few seconds and then she will look away as soon as you catch her eyes. If a girl quickly looks away, it often means that she is worried or is just not ready to reveal her feelings to you, but you can still seem attractive to her.
All people feel incredibly vulnerable and shy when it comes to the object of affection. It is the reason why she will not be able to look into your eyes explicitly and without hesitation for a long time. However, if you are talking lively about something, and the girl looks at you without breaking the eye contact, this does not always mean that she likes you. Perhaps it's just her reaction to the conversation. She is simply interested in the things you say.
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Analyze the context of her behavior
The interpretation of the body language depends on the context. For example, if you talk to a girl and she accidentally touches your hand for a few seconds, this action can be perceived as flirting. However, if she slaps you on the shoulder to get your attention and tell you that your friend is looking for you, you can hardly say that she is flirting.
Be attentive to her efforts to touch you or to get closer
It is an undeniable way to flit, but, actually, she may do it subconsciously being involved in your conversation. She may try to flick off a small item of your shirt. She also can take you by the hand when you tell something funny, “accidentally” touch your shoulder or hand, or gently put her hand on your knee. Keep in mind, that not all girls feel comfortable touching a guy or even other people. So if she does it – everything is not so simple. She may find other ways to touch you. For example, playfully hit you on the arm. Such a "friendly" gesture may be an attempt to get closer to you.
Notice the way how she “accidentally” hugs you
It is especially important if she hugs only you. If you know each other for some time, hugs are a friendly, tender way to get closer to a person and touch him or her without exposing any flirting skills. So if she hugs you when sees you, she is apparently interested in you, and it is possible that she will like you soon.
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Pay attention if she copies your movements
If a girl constantly imitates you (for example, if you fix your hair, and after a few seconds you notice that she does the same thing), most likely, she subconsciously copies your movements. It may indicate that she likes you even if she does not realize it yet.
Be attentive if she tries to look better when she sees you
She may tidy her hair, check the lipstick on her lips or she may set her heat straight. She may do it subconsciously, willing to look more attractive in her try to draw the man’s attention.
Notice all signs of anxiety or excitement
If a girl is interested in you, she will touch or bite her lips, neck, nose, ears or face. The same thing happens when a person lies. Behaving like this, she tries to hide her sympathy.
Take her smiles and laughs seriously
Pay attention to whether she smiles to you at laughs at your jokes (no matter how ridiculous they are). If she is interested in you, you will seem stronger, funnier and more intelligent to her, and she will listen to you no matter what you say.
Now you see that it is entirely possible to find out if a woman is interested in you or likes you. However, the logic of a man and a woman differs significantly and a man often fails to understand a woman, the woman’s thinking is quite down-to-earth. There is nothing complicated in noticing the abrupt changes in the behavior of a girl. The only thing you need – is to be attentive.
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